Kotj/db rugby spirit- everyone who has played the game, is playing the game and are fans of the game must have the same thoughts and opinions as kotj. The more generations your family has been in the spirit the more validity your thoughts have. The lies of the son can be made up for by the acts of the father decades ago.
The rugby spirit I know- brotherhood. Being part of the brotherhood after one match that makes you a full member of the international, diverse, non-monolythic community. A brotherhood where you can share a pint with people that agree with you, you can share a pint with people that beat you and when someone disagrees with someone else they don't question their membership in the global community.
You can keep your rugby spirit, I will keep the real one.